Back in April this year, I went for Ching Ming prayers and visited my deceased Grandma’s columnbarium.
I took a picture from the altar overlooking the view. Can see the statue of Goddess Of Mercy at the Kek Lok Si Temple.
I decorated the prayer tables for both my maternal and paternal deceased grandparents’ tables. They were the only ones with the decorations, so they were special. I was too busy decorating and praying after that, I didn’t have time to take pictures. Sometimes when looking through pictures, have pictures that you don’t want but the pictures you want are not there. Only took pictures while making the white flower deco the night before.
After that, before going home, had ice cream as they had a few snack and drinks stalls there.
This is Carrots with Magnum White Almond ice cream. That’s like Carrots’ little seat in the car. 😆
Today is my Grandma’s birthday in Gregoria’s calendar. For us Chinese, we have our English birthday and also our Chinese birthday because our birthdate in Chinese calendar is a different day from the Gregorian calendar. My Grandma has passed away many years ago though. She’s always remembered and I will always love her.
Some people will always be remembered in our lives forevermore because they left such wonderful memories. I found out that I can also forget about some people that I don’t want to remember. Probably because I treat them as insignificant and I just don’t think about them consciously and after a while, my sub-conscious mind automatically erased them. I feel better because I can move on easier with my life. If you have some sad or painful memories, I hope your mind also learn to erase those. You might have to face the truth and deal with it, but after that, move on and live your life happily.